I’ve tried to understand what matters most to those who want ”˜marriage equality’. The arguments go like this. Current law affects gay and lesbian mental health because it discriminates against them, and so denies them basic human rights (to marry whomever they want and to not experience discrimination). ”˜Marriage equality’ affirms gays and lesbians in their identity and ends the ”˜state-sanctioned bullying’ they take to be inherent to marriage law. ”˜Marriage equality’ celebrates love and gives people what they want ”“ so extending the freedom of choice that we demand of a liberal society.
Let’s observe the assumptions in these claims.
Firstly, love is the sole defining element of marriage. Second, any assertion that gay and lesbian people are different psychologically damages them. Third, it is the state’s responsibility to limit such damage. Finally, every society and generation can renegotiate marriage as it sees fit. A deep attachment to ”“ and ”˜love’ for ”“ this cluster of ideas drives the quest for marriage revision.
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