{"id":10680,"date":"2009-01-13T16:29:17","date_gmt":"2009-01-13T16:29:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/127.0.0.1\/site\/2017\/2\/1985\/when_serving_the_lord_ministers_are_often_found_to_neglect_themselves\/"},"modified":"2009-01-13T16:29:17","modified_gmt":"2009-01-13T16:29:17","slug":"when_serving_the_lord_ministers_are_often_found_to_neglect_themselves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=10680","title":{"rendered":"When Serving the Lord, Ministers Are Often Found to Neglect Themselves"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One day in 1993, the Rev. Steve Hickle picked up his phone and received news of a death. Even for a minister who deals with funerals and burials at least once a month, this particular demise was especially troubling. The victim was just 48 years old, a father of five and, like Mr. Hickle, a Methodist pastor in the Piedmont foothills.<\/p>\n<p>Until recently, Mr. Hickle had thought of his colleague\u2019s death as an object lesson in the capricious impermanence of life. Several months ago, though, as he attended a discussion on the subject of health in the clergy convened by the Divinity School at Duke University here, he began to wonder if there was more involved in a middle-age man\u2019s fatal heart attack than the mystery of the divine plan.<\/p>\n<p>That discussion was one of the first stages of an ambitious effort by Duke to assess and improve the health of ministers, specifically the 1,800 United Methodist pastors in North Carolina because the Divinity School serves as a seminary for the denomination. What underlies the study \u201d\u201d and what Mr. Hickle, among others, has experienced firsthand \u201d\u201d is a concern that in serving the Lord, ministers neglect themselves.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s a personality trait that accompanies the sense of divine calling,\u201d\u009d said Mr. Hickle, 58, who has been the pastor at Fairmont United Methodist Church in Raleigh for 19 years. \u201cYou\u2019re feeding your need to be liked, your need to be valued, your need to be needed.\u201d\u009d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2009\/01\/10\/us\/10religion.html?_r=2&#038;scp=1&#038;sq=duke%20divinity%20school&#038;st=cse\">Read it all<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One day in 1993, the Rev. Steve Hickle picked up his phone and received news of a death. Even for a minister who deals with funerals and burials at least once a month, this particular demise was especially troubling. The<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=10680\">Read more &#8250;<\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":794,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[48,184,177,167,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10680","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christian-life-church-life","category-parish-ministry","category-pastoral-theology","category-seminary-theological-education","category-theology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10680","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/794"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10680"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10680\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10680"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10680"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10680"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}