{"id":107637,"date":"2021-12-09T07:30:33","date_gmt":"2021-12-09T12:30:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=107637"},"modified":"2021-12-09T08:26:52","modified_gmt":"2021-12-09T13:26:52","slug":"nyt-where-the-despairing-log-on-and-learn-ways-to-die","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=107637","title":{"rendered":"(NYT) Where the Despairing Log On, and Learn Ways to Die"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[Warning: contains difficult subject matter] As Matthew van Antwerpen, a 17-year-old in suburban Dallas, struggled with remote schooling during the pandemic last year, he grew increasingly despondent. Searching online, he found a website about suicide.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAny enjoyment or progress I make in my life simply comes across as forced,\u201d he wrote on the site after signing up. \u201cI know it is all just a distraction to blow time until the end.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Roberta Barbos, a 22-year-old student at the University of Glasgow, first posted after a breakup, writing that she was \u201cunbearably lonely.\u201d Shawn Shatto, 25, described feeling miserable at her warehouse job in Pennsylvania. And Daniel Dal Canto, a 16-year-old in Salt Lake City, shared his fears that an undiagnosed stomach ailment might never get better.<\/p>\n<p>Soon after joining, each of them was dead.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/interactive\/2021\/12\/09\/us\/where-the-despairing-log-on.html\">Read it all<\/a>.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\">\n<p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">As a reporter covering mental health &amp; a mother I am horrified by \u2066<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/nytimes?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@nytimes<\/a>\u2069 reporting. And think if we don\u2019t recognize &amp; stop this we will keep losing people. (huge warning-deals with suicide) <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/eFhSBEfvUQ\">https:\/\/t.co\/eFhSBEfvUQ<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&mdash; Kate Snow (@tvkatesnow) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/tvkatesnow\/status\/1468932531265363983?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">December 9, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[Warning: contains difficult subject matter] As Matthew van Antwerpen, a 17-year-old in suburban Dallas, struggled with remote schooling during the pandemic last year, he grew increasingly despondent. Searching online, he found a website about suicide. \u201cAny enjoyment or progress I<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=107637\">Read more &#8250;<\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":794,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[175,94,438,168,104,96,129,95,603,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-107637","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-anthropology","category-blogging-the-internet","category-death-burial-funerals","category-ethics-moral-theology","category-health-medicine","category-life-ethics","category-psychology","category-science-technology","category-suicide","category-theology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107637","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/794"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=107637"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107637\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":107642,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107637\/revisions\/107642"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=107637"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=107637"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=107637"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}