From the modest, anodyne \u201cHave a nice day\u201d I remember growing up with in the \u201880s, in the last decade a giant lovefest has taken over our day-to-day interactions so thoroughly that to abstain from appending heart emojis to everything that comes your way leaves you feeling sidelined and defensively out of tune. Remember \u201cMean Girls\u201d\u2014the movie, yes, but also the phenomenon? Nowadays the average teenage selfie post is met with reactions that run the gamut from \u201cLuuuuuv!\u201d to \u201cBeauty!\u201d to heart emojis to \u201cWorship!\u201d<\/p>\n
I confess I wasn\u2019t prepared for society to speed its way to the love shack. I\u2019d been on a journey to somewhere else entirely. In college, I majored in classics, a field then populated, even in the U.S., by Oxbridge dons. Giving me notes on a scholarship-application essay I\u2019d written that went on and on about my passion for this and my life\u2019s desire for that, a professor remarked mildly, \u201cSometimes\u2026less is more.\u201d<\/p>\n
His remark stayed with me\u2014and not solely as the mother of all writing tips. The essence of adulthood, I suddenly grasped, was internalizing understatement. It meant sublimating one\u2019s raw, emotional insides to something drier on the outside, something more even-tempered and hence more sophisticated. To put aside childish things, one had to ditch not only the tantrums of the toddler years but the gushing of the early teens.<\/p>\n
Read it all<\/a> (registration or subscription).<\/p>\n About over-sharing emotions on social media: a ritual, or an attempt to keep people close to us? Also, as the author argues, a reflection of the current (dysfunctional, I shall add) "niceness" culture . The Age of Emotional Overstatement – WSJ https:\/\/t.co\/MXWK3LlAnV<\/a><\/p>\n — Matteo Sardi (@MatteoSardi) June 16, 2022<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n \n