As GK Chesterton once put it: \u201cIf my children wake up on Christmas morning and have someone to thank for putting candy in their stockings, have I no one to thank for putting two feet in mine?\u201d<\/p>\n
A gift we receive is never ultimately about the gift \u2014 it\u2019s about the relationship established between us and the one who gave it. We often say it\u2019s the thought that counts. If that\u2019s true, then if there is no thought behind the thing we receive, somehow, however good it is, it means less. Gratitude is better than greed, but if there is no one behind the things we enjoy, then what we have is not really a gift, because a gift needs a giver. If, however, behind the gift there is someone who gave us what we needed, or even more than we needed, whether or not we deserved it, that gift becomes something much more significant.<\/p>\n
It becomes a token of love \u2014 a sign that, despite everything, there is a God who made us, thinks of us and cares for us, and even beyond that, gives Himself for us, an even deeper reality than the gift itself.<\/p>\n