{"id":12100,"date":"2009-04-05T16:00:55","date_gmt":"2009-04-05T16:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/127.0.0.1\/site\/2017\/2\/1985\/notable_and_quotable_5_april_2009\/"},"modified":"2009-04-05T16:00:55","modified_gmt":"2009-04-05T16:00:55","slug":"notable_and_quotable_5_april_2009","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=12100","title":{"rendered":"Notable and Quotable (I)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is a lesson here not just for policymakers but also for the rest of us. &#8220;It is human nature always to want a little more,&#8221; writes the psychologist Timothy Miller in the recent book How to Want What You Have, perhaps the first self-help book based explicitly on evolutionary psychology. &#8220;People spend their lives honestly believing that they have almost enough of whatever they want. Just a little more will put them over the top; then they will be contented forever.&#8221; This is a built-in illusion, Miller notes, engrained in our minds by natural selection.<\/p>\n<p>The illusion was designed to keep us constantly striving, adding tiny increments to the chances that our genes would get into the next generation. Yet in a modern environment&#8211;which, unlike the ancestral environment, features contraception&#8211;our obsession with material gain rarely has that effect. Besides, why should any of us choose to pursue maximum genetic proliferation&#8211;or relentless material gain, or anything else&#8211;just because that is high on the agenda of the process that designed the human mind? Natural selection, for better or worse, is our creator, but it isn&#8217;t God; the impulses it implanted into our minds aren&#8217;t necessarily good, and they aren&#8217;t wholly beyond resisting.<\/p>\n<p>Part of Miller&#8217;s point is that the instinctive but ultimately fruitless pursuit of More&#8211;the 60-hour workweeks, the hour a month spent perusing the Sharper Image catalog&#8211;keeps us from indulging what Darwin called &#8220;the social instincts.&#8221; The pursuit of More can keep us from better knowing our neighbors, better loving our kin-in general, from cultivating the warm, affiliative side of human nature whose roots science is just now starting to fathom.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.time.com\/time\/printout\/0,8816,983355,00.html\">Robert Wright in a 1995 cover article in Time Magazine entitled &#8220;The Evolution of Despair&#8221;<\/a>.  I bumped into this this week while working on a teaching and scrounging through some old sermon files.  It&#8217;s appropriateness is, I think, quite evident in our time.  Not especially this line also in the essay: <b>we are designed to seek trusting relationships and to feel uncomfortable in their absence&#8211;KSH<\/b>.<\/i><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is a lesson here not just for policymakers but also for the rest of us. &#8220;It is human nature always to want a little more,&#8221; writes the psychologist Timothy Miller in the recent book How to Want What You<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=12100\">Read more &#8250;<\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":794,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39,129],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture-watch","category-psychology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12100","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/794"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12100"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12100\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12100"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12100"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12100"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}