{"id":131221,"date":"2024-09-16T08:01:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-16T12:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=131221"},"modified":"2024-09-16T17:30:33","modified_gmt":"2024-09-16T21:30:33","slug":"nyt-front-page-todays-parents-exhausted-burned-out-and-perpetually-behind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=131221","title":{"rendered":"(NYT front page) Today\u2019s Parents: \u2018Exhausted, Burned Out and Perpetually Behind\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In his&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.hhs.gov\/sites\/default\/files\/parents-under-pressure.pdf\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">recent advisory<\/a>&nbsp;on&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/08\/28\/opinion\/surgeon-general-stress-parents.html\">parents\u2019 mental health<\/a>, the United States surgeon general, Dr. Vivek H. Murthy, said out loud what many parents might have only furtively admitted: Parenting today is too hard and stressful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, there have always been concerns about families\u2019 well-being. And while some of today\u2019s parents\u2019 fears are newer \u2014 cellphones, school shootings, fentanyl \u2014 parents have&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/09\/11\/opinion\/parenting-has-always-been-hard.html\">always worried<\/a>&nbsp;about their children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So why has parental stress risen to the level of a rare surgeon general\u2019s warning about an urgent public health issue \u2014&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2023\/05\/23\/health\/surgeon-general-warnings-history.html\">putting it in the same category<\/a>&nbsp;as cigarettes and AIDS?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s because today\u2019s parents&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/12\/25\/upshot\/the-relentlessness-of-modern-parenting.html\">face something different and more demanding<\/a>: the expectation that they spend ever more time and money educating and enriching their children. These pressures, researchers say, are driven in part by fears about the modern-day economy \u2014 that if parents don\u2019t equip their children with every possible advantage, their children could fail to achieve a secure, middle-class life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2024\/09\/14\/upshot\/parents-stress-murthy-warning.html\">Read it all<\/a>.<\/p><blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">So true, right here in our wealthy Silicon Valley community &#8211; nearly every kid is scheduled every day, weekends, too, sports, classes, etc. I&#39;m part of it, teaching robotics after school, too:<br>Today\u2019s Parents: \u2018Exhausted, Burned Out &amp; Perpetually Behind\u2019 <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/0JjY4ep8lr\">https:\/\/t.co\/0JjY4ep8lr<\/a><\/p>&mdash; Steve Mushero (@stevemushero) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/stevemushero\/status\/1835010573786136964?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">September 14, 2024<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In his&nbsp;recent advisory&nbsp;on&nbsp;parents\u2019 mental health, the United States surgeon general, Dr. Vivek H. Murthy, said out loud what many parents might have only furtively admitted: Parenting today is too hard and stressful. 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