One of the perennial challenges of older generations is providing guidance to younger generations without becoming bitter old scolds. One of the perennial challenges of younger generations is retaining their agency while being open to the wisdom of their elders.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And perhaps no conversations are more sensitive in these intragenerational dialogues than those concerning marriage and childbearing. Whether elders are warning against the losses of ease and freedom that come with settling down or asking when they can expect grandchildren, the pressure to get it right can be intense. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For Christians, added pressures come from Scripture and tradition. The Bible clearly teaches that \u201che who finds a wife finds a good thing\u201d (Prov. 18:22, ESV throughout) and that \u201cchildren are a heritage from the Lord\u201d (Ps. 127:3). And in many evangelical churches, young people feel a certain expectation to marry young and have children promptly. But at the same time, the world\u2014and often fellow Christians too\u2014pressures young people to be autonomous individuals.\u00a0Maximize your liberties<\/em>, they\u2019re told.\u00a0Trim your responsibilities and pursue pleasures and success<\/em>….<\/p>\n\n\n\n This need is urgent, because there\u2019s reason to think younger generations are abandoning the basic institution of society: the family. Birth and marriage rates in America are both in decline, and\u00a0a recent Pew study showed<\/a>\u00a0that American teenagers value career, friendship, and wealth over marriage and children. In fact, they deemed having a lot of money nearly twice as important as having kids.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n Read it all<\/a>.<\/p> Of Note: Young people who feel anxious and conflicted about marriage and family need a positive example, not a lecture.https:\/\/t.co\/SWqENMJbB8<\/a><\/p>— The Institute for Family Studies (@FamStudies) June 12, 2025<\/a><\/blockquote>