The Golden Result is a corollary to the Golden Rule, which calls us to do to others as we would have them do to us. The Golden Result says that people will usually treat us as we treat them. If we blame others for a problem, they will usually blame in return. But if we say, \u201cI was wrong,\u201d it is amazing how often the response will be, \u201cIt was my fault too.\u201d I have seen this result in hundreds of cases over the past twenty-one years. Whether the dispute involves a personal quarrel, divorce, lawsuit, or church division, people generally treat one another as they are being treated.
When one person attacks and accuses, so does the other. And when God moves one person to start getting the log out of his or her own eye, it is rare that the other side fails to do the same. The Golden Result occurs most often with people who understand and cherish the gospel. When we admit that our own sins are so serious that Jesus had to die for us, and remember that he has forgiven us for all our wrongs, we can let go of our illusion of self-righteousness and freely admit our failures. When we do this, we experience the wonderful gift of God\u2019s forgiveness. And in many cases, he will be pleased to use our confessions to help others see the logs in their eyes.
Ken Sande, The Peacemaker<\/b> (Grand Rapids: Baker, 1991)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
The Golden Result is a corollary to the Golden Rule, which calls us to do to others as we would have them do to us. The Golden Result says that people will usually treat us as we treat them. If…<\/span><\/p>\n