{"id":20876,"date":"2010-07-22T15:00:32","date_gmt":"2010-07-22T15:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/127.0.0.1\/site\/2017\/2\/1985\/amy_vierboom_in_the_smh_shacking_up_for_the_future\/"},"modified":"2010-07-22T15:00:32","modified_gmt":"2010-07-22T15:00:32","slug":"amy_vierboom_in_the_smh_shacking_up_for_the_future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=20876","title":{"rendered":"An article in the SMH: Shacking up for the future"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The Australian Institute of Family Studies recently held its biennial conference, celebrating 30 years of &#8220;advancing understanding of Australian families&#8221;. The conference recognised key statistics that illustrate some of the dramatic changes in the landscape of families, including declining marriage rates and the increase in cohabitation and ex-nuptial births.<\/p>\n<p>One only has to glance at the 500-plus comments expressing outrage at Bettina Ardnt&#8217;s &#8220;backward opinions&#8221; (which suggested that Prime Minister Julia Gillard&#8217;s de facto relationship might not be setting the best example for young female onlookers) or, more recently, the response to the article by Chris Meney to conclude that we seem to have reached consensus: cohabitation is another stage on the pathway to a family.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to children&#8217;s wellbeing, AIFS director Professor Alan Hayes recognises that the function of the family unit is what matters, rather than the form. What is crucial is that children have an example of a loving relationship that doesn&#8217;t disappear before their eyes; that they&#8217;re brought up in an environment of love.<\/p>\n<p><i>Please take special note of that line:<b> &#8220;the function&#8230;is what matters, rather than the form.&#8221;<\/b> A better statement of modern gnosticism you will rarely see.  <a href=\"http:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/opinion\/society-and-culture\/shacking-up-for-the-future-20100721-10khn.html\">Read it all<\/a>&#8211;KSH<\/i>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Australian Institute of Family Studies recently held its biennial conference, celebrating 30 years of &#8220;advancing understanding of Australian families&#8221;. The conference recognised key statistics that illustrate some of the dramatic changes in the landscape of families, including declining marriage<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=20876\">Read more &#8250;<\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":794,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39,50,204,101,98],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20876","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture-watch","category-international-news-commentary","category-australia-nz","category-children","category-marriage-family"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20876","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/794"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=20876"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20876\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=20876"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=20876"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=20876"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}