{"id":32446,"date":"2012-05-11T15:00:11","date_gmt":"2012-05-11T15:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/127.0.0.1\/site\/2017\/2\/1985\/kevin_deyoung_offers_10_reflections_based_on_10_years_of_marriage\/"},"modified":"2012-05-11T15:00:11","modified_gmt":"2012-05-11T15:00:11","slug":"kevin_deyoung_offers_10_reflections_based_on_10_years_of_marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=32446","title":{"rendered":"Kevin DeYoung offers 10 reflections based on 10 years of marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>9. Make her laugh. A marriage without humor is like oatmeal without brown sugar: it might still be good for you, but it\u2019s basically congealed mush. If you\u2019ve stopped laughing, you may have started hardening.<\/p>\n<p>10. Repent and forgive. Say \u201cI\u2019m sorry.\u201d\u009d Be specific and don\u2019t make excuses. Try to see things her way. If you were only half wrong, own up to your half of the wrong. And when she owns up to her h<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thegospelcoalition.org\/blogs\/kevindeyoung\/2012\/05\/01\/ten-years-ten-lessons\">Read it all<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>9. Make her laugh. A marriage without humor is like oatmeal without brown sugar: it might still be good for you, but it\u2019s basically congealed mush. If you\u2019ve stopped laughing, you may have started hardening. 10. Repent and forgive. Say<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=32446\">Read more &#8250;<\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":794,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[48,39,98,184,177,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32446","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christian-life-church-life","category-culture-watch","category-marriage-family","category-parish-ministry","category-pastoral-theology","category-theology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32446","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/794"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=32446"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32446\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=32446"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=32446"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=32446"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}