The importance of physical proximity, when it comes to fatherhood, may help explain why the sociological story about fatherhood is remarkably similar to the biological story. Fatherhood is socially transformative for men\u201d\u201dbut only, once again, if they are living proximate to their children. By contrast, men who don\u2019t live with their children, either because they never married the mother in the first place, or got divorced, often don\u2019t look much different than childless men. Three findings illustrate the point:<\/p>\n
1) Steering clear of the blues. Fathers who live with their children are significantly less likely to be depressed, and more likely to report they are satisfied with their lives, compared to childless men. But men who live apart from their children have levels of life satisfaction and depression that largely parallel those of their childless peers. In other words, men who don\u2019t live with their children don\u2019t benefit psychologically from fatherhood….<\/p>\n