Rising industrialization and urbanization in the late-nineteenth and early-twentieth centuries helped push the graveyard out of town, and these shifts coincided with the rise of a new reserve, in which displays of strong emotion, such as grief, were unseemly.<\/p>\n
But during the 1950s, the landscape changed. In 1955, Geoffrey Gorer\u2019s fascinating essay \u201cThe Pornography of Death,\u201d\u009d argued that proscriptions around death had replaced the Victorian taboo against sex. In 1959, psychologist Herman Feifel came out with The Meaning of Death, a collection of essays often credited with singlehandedly establishing death, dying, and bereavement as legitimate areas for study. Yet neither Feifel nor Gorer made their way to American dinner tables. It was [Jessica] Mitford who got ordinary people talking. The American Way of Death made its way into soap operas, newspaper cartoons, and even the cover of Good Housekeeping. (An extract appeared in a 1964 issue alongside such articles as \u201cComing, a New Kind of Refrigerator\u201d\u009d and \u201cHow Well Can Carpets Take It?\u201d\u009d) Her take-charge, do-it-yourself message helped liberate Americans from the rigid rules and roles they were eager to cast off, as they were beginning to do in so many other areas of life.<\/p>\n
That doesn\u2019t mean The American Way of Death encouraged Americans to rethink their cultural relationship with death, exactly. The book is a narrowly conceived expos\u00c3\u00a9, a screed against expensive funerals and the men who sell them, not an analysis of how or why funerals got that way. It\u2019s interesting to contrast Mitford\u2019s book with the seminal death texts of the past, such as the two in the fifteenth century that were both called The Art of Dying, or the Tibetan and Egyptian books of the dead. Those works helped individuals prepare for death by prescribing a series of attitudes and rituals designed to ensure a good death and a better afterlife. Such rituals helped people grapple with death\u2019s great challenge to the self; they made death mean. By contrast, Mitford\u2019s book is a Consumer Reports of death. Instead of prayers and meditations, she offers tips on the best way to get a cheap casket (just keep asking the salesman; it\u2019s often out in the garage).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Rising industrialization and urbanization in the late-nineteenth and early-twentieth centuries helped push the graveyard out of town, and these shifts coincided with the rise of a new reserve, in which displays of strong emotion, such as grief, were unseemly. But…<\/span><\/p>\n