I was fortunate, in my own life, to have a bold counseling professor tell me what he saw\u201d\u201dimmaturity, arrogance, insecurity. We live in a culture of affirmation, and I believe in affirming young men and women entering ministry or leadership positions. But not without some honest feedback\u201d\u201dabout their relational patterns, hidden insecurities, and messianic dreams.<\/p>\n
Spiritual health is not about climbing some moral ladder, but about what Jesus calls “purity of heart.” This means that our inner life matches our outer. Remember, this was the problem of the religious leaders in Jesus’ day. They were hypocrites, play-actors, doing life on stage but hollow within.<\/p>\n
It takes time and suffering for growth to happen. This is why the poor, broken, and unclean seem to be privileged in the New Testament\u201d\u201dthey’ve already hit bottom. Our humiliations breed depth, grace, forgiveness, strength, courage, curiosity, and hope\u201d\u201dall the attributes that make healthy leaders<\/b>. Otherwise we’ll quickly experience what happens to anyone living a lie: We’ll get caught, fall, or alienate everyone we love.<\/p>\n