{"id":55977,"date":"2016-10-13T16:00:53","date_gmt":"2016-10-13T16:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/127.0.0.1\/site\/2017\/2\/1985\/must_not_miss_peter_demarco-a_letter_to_the_doctors_and_nurses_who_cared_f\/"},"modified":"2016-10-13T16:00:53","modified_gmt":"2016-10-13T16:00:53","slug":"must_not_miss_peter_demarco-a_letter_to_the_doctors_and_nurses_who_cared_f","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=55977","title":{"rendered":"*Must not Miss* Peter DeMarco&#8211;A Letter to the Doctors and Nurses Who Cared for My Wife"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There is another moment \u201d\u201d actually, a single hour \u201d\u201d that I will never forget.<\/p>\n<p>On the final day, as we waited for Laura\u2019s organ donor surgery, all I wanted was to be alone with her. But family and friends kept coming to say their goodbyes, and the clock ticked away. About 4 p.m., finally, everyone had gone, and I was emotionally and physically exhausted, in need of a nap. So I asked her nurses, Donna and Jen, if they could help me set up the recliner, which was so uncomfortable, but all I had, next to Laura again. They had a better idea.<\/p>\n<p>They asked me to leave the room for a moment, and when I returned, they had shifted Laura to the right side of her bed, leaving just enough room for me to crawl in with her one last time. I asked if they could give us one hour without a single interruption, and they nodded, closing the curtains and the doors, and shutting off the lights.<\/p>\n<p>I nestled my body against hers. She looked so beautiful, and I told her so, stroking her hair and face.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2016\/10\/06\/well\/live\/a-letter-to-the-doctors-and-nurses-who-cared-for-my-wife.html\">Read it all<\/a> from the New York Times. If you have a moment, this is a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/nightly-news\/video\/a-widower-s-powerful-love-letter-to-those-who-cared-for-his-dying-wife-783053379863\">lovely video report also<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There is another moment \u201d\u201d actually, a single hour \u201d\u201d that I will never forget. On the final day, as we waited for Laura\u2019s organ donor surgery, all I wanted was to be alone with her. But family and friends<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=55977\">Read more &#8250;<\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":794,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[48,39,438,104,98,184,177,129,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55977","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christian-life-church-life","category-culture-watch","category-death-burial-funerals","category-health-medicine","category-marriage-family","category-parish-ministry","category-pastoral-theology","category-psychology","category-theology"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55977","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/794"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=55977"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55977\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=55977"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=55977"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=55977"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}