Ms. Runkles\u2019s story sheds light on a delicate issue: how Christian schools, which advocate abstinence until marriage, treat pregnant teenagers.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou have these two competing values,\u201d said Brad Wilcox, a sociologist at the University of Virginia who directs the National Marriage Project, which conducts research on marriage and families. \u201cOn the one hand, the school is seeking to maintain some kind of commitment to what has classically been called chastity \u2014 or today might be called abstinence. At the same time, there\u2019s an expectation in many Christian circles that we are doing all that we can to honor life.\u201d<\/p>\n
Navigating that balance is exceedingly difficult for Christian educators, and schools respond in various ways, said Rick Kempton, chairman of the board of the Association of Christian Schools International, which represents about 3,000 schools in the United States and many others overseas.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere\u2019s a biblical term that many Christian schools use, and it is the whole idea of grace: What would Jesus do?\u201d Mr. Kempton said. Of Ms. Runkles, he added: \u201cShe\u2019s making the right choice. But you don\u2019t want to create a celebration that makes other young ladies feel like, \u2018Well, that seems like a pretty good option.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n