Before I met Nicholas, I\u2019d been in several monogamous relationships but had never been able to remain faithful in any of them. With him, it was easy\u2014not just because I was so sexually attracted to him, but because I loved him so much. Now and then, we\u2019d have the typical \u201coh, a threesome would be fun someday\u201d conversation, but we never really dug any deeper.<\/p>\n
Everything changed in 2011, when someone in our family experienced a life-threatening accident.That kind of changed our perspective about life and the need to live every single day to its fullest.<\/p>\n
Meanwhile, I\u2019d started craving a little sexual excitement into our lives, and the idea of an open relationship intrigued me. But I had no idea how to even approach the idea with Nicholas, or how it would actually play out in reality. At that time, our social circle didn\u2019t include anyone else who had an open marriage, so I wasn\u2019t sure where to start. That\u2019s when I sought counsel from some friends on the West Coast who were involved in such relationships.<\/p>\n