{"id":86721,"date":"2019-11-19T08:30:57","date_gmt":"2019-11-19T13:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=86721"},"modified":"2019-11-19T05:45:18","modified_gmt":"2019-11-19T10:45:18","slug":"first-comes-snapchat-then-the-bachelor-and-spinster-ball","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=86721","title":{"rendered":"(NYT) First Comes Snapchat, Then the Bachelor and Spinster Ball"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cIt\u2019s hard finding love,\u201d Rippy said, noting that his wife of 30 years was somewhere nearby. \u201cI\u2019d hate to be single again. It\u2019s scary, dead set.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But that\u2019s why the balls matter, he added. Along with the awkward singles, the free-flowing beer and the backfiring pickup trucks, or \u201cutes,\u201d turned on and off to create fiery explosions called key bangs, there are people who connected at balls and come back to socialize.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWho here is a couple?\u201d Rippy yelled, meandering through the crowd.<\/p>\n<p>Within a minute, Jess and Matt Chown emerged. He works on sheep farms; she works at an aged-care home for veterans.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe met at a ball in 2011,\u201d Ms. Chown said. \u201cI laid eyes on him and it was love at first sight.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou know why I come? To do things I can\u2019t do in church,\u201d Mr. Chown said. Standing at least 6-foot-3 and wider than a tree cut for timber, he kicked a trash bin, making a loud clang.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone laughed, including his wife.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2019\/11\/19\/world\/australia\/bachelor-spinster-balls.html\">Read it all<\/a>.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\">\n<p dir=\"ltr\" lang=\"en\">\u201cYou know why I come? To do things I can\u2019t do in church.&#8221; Australia&#8217;s Bachelor and Spinster balls bring together single people across the country&#8217;s vast distances. <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/ml0oTxW6ds\">https:\/\/t.co\/ml0oTxW6ds<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u2014 New York Times World (@nytimesworld) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/nytimesworld\/status\/1196739812922933248?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">November 19, 2019<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cIt\u2019s hard finding love,\u201d Rippy said, noting that his wife of 30 years was somewhere nearby. \u201cI\u2019d hate to be single again. It\u2019s scary, dead set.\u201d But that\u2019s why the balls matter, he added. Along with the awkward singles, the<span class=\"ellipsis\">&hellip;<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"read-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/?p=86721\">Read more &#8250;<\/a><\/div>\n<p><!-- end of .read-more --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":794,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39,204,98,125,129,108,107,126],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-86721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture-watch","category-australia-nz","category-marriage-family","category-men","category-psychology","category-religion-culture","category-ruraltown-life","category-women"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86721","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/794"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=86721"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86721\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":86723,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/86721\/revisions\/86723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=86721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=86721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kendallharmon.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=86721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}