But the one thing which will be remembered above all after the visit of this very different Pope to the United States is the simple word “sorry”. The Holy Father recognised that there was no way he could celebrate the essence of his own faith amongst new friends without first offering a deep and profound apology for previous wrongs- and particularly to the victims of terrible abuse by representatives of his own church in former times.
The protection of children, young people and vulnerable adults is now a massive priority for any organisation working with and for them. And whilst the putting in place of stringent measures to protect children in the future is admirable – we cannot forget those who have suffered terribly in the past and who still bear the scares of previous wrongdoing.
By saying sorry so openly and unequivocally, Pope Benedict’s confession and appeal for forgiveness has obviously rallied many Americans behind him and given millions of Christians a basic reminder of how true repentance can lead to a fresh start. There’s no room for complacency but there’s certainly an opportunity to live out perhaps the most famous prayer of all: forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who have trespassed against us.
According to one report, the Vatican is also looking at structural, canonical changes to address the problem as well, which is a good thing.
But I always say this: as much as any organization or group of people can and should do everything possible to protect the defenseless, the first line of defense remains the parents. Attention and common sense will do more to keep your kids safe than anything, because the world is not a safe place.
Did the Holy Father put a foot wrong in his whole trip? It seems to have been a complete success: excellent public relations, high quality events (except for the unfortunate music at the DC mass), powerful symbolism, thoughtful and weighty remarks, real affection from audiences. And, best of all, a sense of deep faith and sincerity about the whole enterprise that just can’t be faked. Could anyone imagine a pan-Anglican event of this calibre?
As a foreigner, I have to say that (with the possible exception of the over-paranoid security) the trip reflected extremely well upon the people of the USA.