“The decisions you think are most important turn out not to matter so much after all. But whether you mail the letter, the way you say goodbye or decide not to say it, the afternoon you cancel everything and drive out to the beach to watch the tide come in these are apt to be the moments when souls are won or lost, including quite possibly your own.”
–Frederick Buechner A Room Called Remember ( New York: HarperOne, 1992) p.149