But regardless of how people of faith feel about gay people, my wife and I believe that the vast majority of Californians – even many conservative people of faith – realize that this is a simple matter of fairness.
It’s not fair to take away marriages from loving couples. No church will be forced to perform marriages. Even though divorce is legal, Catholic priests are not forced to perform weddings for divorced people. Faith communities will continue to have the right to practice what they preach.
Our Episcopal Church has been in the news recently because of disagreement over gay people. But, despite our differences, California Episcopal bishops urged people to vote “no” on Proposition 8. Bishops from both northern and southern California spoke about such core values as love and mutual responsibility. They said it best, “society is strengthened when two people who love each other choose to enter into marriage, engaged in a lifetime of disciplined relationship building that serves as a witness to the importance of love and commitment.”
The bishops recognized that keeping marriage available to same-sex couples is more than beautiful backyard weddings; it means that loving couples have lifelong obligations to care for one another that are not easily dissolved.
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